Egology

Egology explains how we become who we needed to be within the environments we grew up in—family, relationships, institutions, and culture. The Enneagram shows the specific pattern that adaptation took, mapping how you learned to operate in order to maintain connection and belonging.

In CounSouling, these are used together to understand how your attention learned to organize—and how, with awareness, those patterns can soften, increasing your ability to stay present, make clearer choices, and relate more authentically.